In Romans 14 Paul says not to put “a stumbling block or a cause to fall in our brother’s way” (Romans 14:13). Other parts of the Bible show how God Himself clears the way for His people.
Build a road. Through Isaiah, God said, “Heap it up! Heap it up! Prepare the way, Take the stumbling block out of the way of My people” (Isaiah 57:14).
A road home. In Isaiah’s day, God was calling His humble people back to Him. He wanted the road cleared so nothing would stop them from coming.
What a stumbling block is. A stumbling block is anything in the road that makes someone trip and fall.
God wants His people near. God does not leave rocks in the road for His children. He clears the way.
The biggest stumbling block. Our sin stood between us and God like a huge rock. We could not move it.
Jesus cleared the way. Jesus died on the cross for our sins and rose again (1 Corinthians 15:3-4). Now everyone who trusts Him can come to God.
Love and light. John wrote, “He who loves his brother abides in the light, and there is no cause for stumbling in him” (1 John 2:10).
Abides. To abide means to stay. People who love stay in the light, where they can see the road.
Walking in the dark. “But he who hates his brother is in darkness and walks in darkness, and does not know where he is going” (1 John 2:11). Hate is like walking with your eyes covered.
Hate trips people. A person full of hate cannot see clearly. He trips himself, and he often trips others too.
Love clears the road. When you love your brothers and sisters in Christ, you help keep the path clear for them.
Rocks people leave. Teasing, unkind words and showing off can all be rocks in someone else’s road.
Rocks people move. A kind word, an apology, or patience with someone younger can move a rock out of the way.
Following Jesus. He moved the biggest rock for us. When we clear smaller rocks for others, we are following Him.
Grown-ups help clear the road. If something or someone is putting you in danger, telling a parent or a trusted grown-up helps clear the path. Asking for help when you are not safe is always right.
What to do. Ask God to show you any rock you are leaving in a friend’s way, like teasing, unkind words or showing off. Then move it.
Paul says, “We then who are strong ought to bear with the scruples of the weak” (Romans 15:1). The letter to the Hebrews gives a picture of what that looks like.
Tired hands and knees. “Therefore strengthen the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees” (Hebrews 12:12). Feeble means weak and shaky.
Like hikers. Picture people walking up a long mountain trail. Some are tired. Their arms hang down, and their knees shake.
Straight paths. “And make straight paths for your feet, so that what is lame may not be dislocated, but rather be healed” (12:13). Lame means hurt so that walking is hard.
Why a smooth path helps. A hiker with a hurt ankle does better on a smooth path than on a rocky one. The smooth path gives the ankle time to heal.
Your path matters. The way you live is part of the path others walk. When you live God’s way, you make it easier for weaker believers to keep going.
Pursue peace. “Pursue peace with all people” (12:14). To pursue means to go after something with all your strength.
Paul’s example. Paul told the church leaders from Ephesus, “you must support the weak” (Acts 20:35). Paul worked hard so he could help others.
Jesus’ words. Paul reminded them of “the words of the Lord Jesus, that He said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive’” (Acts 20:35).
Blessed to give. Helping a weaker friend is not a loss. Jesus said the giver is the one who is blessed.
Ways to help. You can walk with a new kid to class, help a younger child find a Bible verse, or stay close to someone who is sad.
Strength is for sharing. If you know your Bible well, you can help a younger child learn. If you feel brave, you can stand next to someone who is scared.
Not for showing off. Helping is not a way to look important. It is a way to love like Jesus.
Let others help you. Sometimes you will be the tired one. It is good to let others help you, and to tell a trusted grown-up when something is wrong.
Jesus helps the weak. We were all weak in sin. Jesus died on the cross for our sins and rose again, and He gives strength to everyone who trusts Him.
What to do. Think of one person who seems tired or left out. Ask God to help you strengthen them this week.
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